Calling Husband Unemployed Amounts to Cruelty: Chhattisgarh High Court Ruling
- Soumya Pandey
- Aug 23, 2025
- 2 min read

Case Title
Anil Kumar Sonmani @ Anil Swami v. Shradha Tiwari (Sonmani)
Date of High Court Order
August 18, 2025 — The bench issued its judgment on this date.
Case Summary
The husband, an advocate, appealed the dismissal of his divorce petition filed in the Family Court, Durg. He alleged mental cruelty and desertion by his wife, who had obtained a Ph.D. and secured a principal’s post. The wife humiliated him during his unemployment amid COVID-19, influenced their daughter against him, and abruptly left with the daughter—abandoning the husband and son. The Chhattisgarh High Court set aside the lower court’s decision and granted the divorce, recognizing both cruelty and desertion.
Understanding ‘Cruelty’ in Matrimonial Law
Under Section 13(1)(i-a) of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955, “cruelty” includes mental or emotional harm. The Court reaffirmed that taunting a spouse during financial hardship, especially with insults and emotional harm, is recognized as mental cruelty. This case underscores that emotional suffering—even without physical violence—can justify divorce.
Arguments Presented by Both Parties
Husband’s Arguments (Appellant):
His wife began taunting him about his unemployment during the COVID-19 financial crunch.
She made unreasonable demands and engaged in frequent quarrels.
She influenced their daughter against him, left the matrimonial home with the daughter (August 2, 2020), and later sent a letter (September 16, 2020) stating she was leaving voluntarily and cutting ties.
The wife never responded to summons or participated in the proceedings.
The Family Court erroneously dismissed his petition based on an unexhibited counseling report.
Observations by the Court
Mental cruelty: The wife's mockery, verbal humiliation during his financial vulnerability, and emotional alienation (turning daughter against him) constituted mental cruelty.
Desertion: Her voluntary departure in September 2020, evidenced by her letter indicating intent to sever ties, and her absence thereafter established animus deserendi.
The Court criticized the Family Court's reliance on a non-exhibited report and failure to consider uncontroverted, credible evidence.
Graphics of legal precedents: The judgment referred to V. Bhagat v. D. Bhagat (1994) and K. Srinivasa Rao v. D.A. Deepa (2013) to define cruelty, and Bipinchandra Jaisinghbhai Shah v. Prabhavati (1957) for desertion standards.
Irretrievable breakdown: The Court held there was no chance of reconciliation, warranting divorce.
Court’s Order / Judgment
Allowed the husband’s appeal.
Set aside the Family Court’s judgment dated October 25, 2023.
Dissolved the marriage by decree of divorce under Section 13 of the Hindu Marriage Act.
Conclusion
This landmark decision by the Chhattisgarh High Court strengthens the recognition of male victims of mental cruelty in marital disputes. In circumstances of economic distress, emotional abuse like taunting and humiliation can be as damaging as physical maltreatment. The judgment also reaffirms that desertion requires clear evidence of intent to abandon the marital relationship—with the wife’s letter serving as pivotal proof. Overall, the ruling promotes gender-neutral application of matrimonial law and expands the scope of what constitutes cruelty beyond physical harm.


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